Approach

Here’s a sampling of the Radical Ideas
in our approach to relationships.

Telling the truth is the strongest aphrodisiac on earth. Expressing & sharing feelings is one of the most healing aspects of an intimate relationship.

When we don’t tell the truth, we enter a house of mirrors. Behind every relationship problem is a sweaty ten-minute conversation you’ve been trying to avoid. Do it now.

Your central task is learning to stay in positive energy longer and longer. This is especially true in a co-committed relationship. We teach you how.

Listen to your rhythms and strive for balance. Conscious relationships honor the drive to merge into unity with the other and the urge to fulfill your own creative destiny.

Appreciation is the lifeblood of conscious loving relationships. Make appreciating your partner a daily art form — and watch as your relationship takes a quantum leap!

Taking 100% responsibility rocks. It opens up your creativity and ease — and keeps you from squandering your energy looking for someone to blame.

How you spend your energy is your choice. We haven’t had an argument in more than 15 years. We rechanneled all that wasted argument energy into creative energy.

 
We created these videos to give you an embodied practice of the major processes we explore in Conscious Loving Ever After. We recommend that you continue practicing with their support until these new possibilities are easily integrated into your daily lives. Enjoy!